In much of the world people go most of their lives without ever meeting someone who is openly HIV positive and therefore carry around a preconceived notion that the majority of those who are infected are gay men, intravenous drug users, sex workers, or promiscuous individuals living alternative lifestyles. In South Africa, and around the globe, these preconceived notions and cultural stereotypes are just not accurate.
Now that HIV is no longer something that people have to die with and is rather something that people can “live” with, I believe it is important for the world to see and come to understand that people of all ages, races, and socioeconomic backgrounds are infected and living with HIV. Unfortunately, most of those people are now living with the disease and all of the stigmas and stereotypes that go along with it, making living with something that is already difficult, almost impossible. It keeps those who have it from acknowledging it, speaking out about it, and educating others. This causes secrets to be kept, keeps infection rates high, and makes the possibility of living normal lives inconceivable.
The cultural barriers for those living with HIV don’t have to be present forever, but they are never going to change if the world doesn’t get a clear picture of the actual population living with HIV. Stereotypes and preconceived notions are hard to change in an isolated area, let alone globally, but the best way to make the change is visually. People need to be able to relate to those living with HIV and the only way to do that, without personally getting to know someone, is to visually see that those infected are similar to yourself and are also professionals, students, mothers, babies, and children.
I currently live in Pretoria, South Africa where HIV/AIDS is very real for everyone. The Human Sciences Research Council, in South Africa, estimates that 10.9% of all South Africans have HIV/AIDS. Within the adult population the rate is estimated to be 18.5%. South Africa is thought to be the country with the highest number of HIV/AIDS cases in the world. It is true that certain demographics of the South African population are affected more than others but the reality is that the effects are felt through all demographics in this country and globally.
It is here, with the help of many brave individuals, that I hope we can we can make a "positive" contribution to all of those who deserve to live open and healthy lives, free of stigmas and discrimination. This will be a platform for them to tell their stories and show the world that they are normal people, with normal lives, that live with unfortunate circumstances and don't deserve to be judged for it. Additionally it is my hope that these faces of hope will encourage people to get tested and, if positive, choose a life with treatment.
Monday, July 20, 2015
Jackie - Living with HIV for 4 Years
Monday, July 6, 2015
Shawn - Living with HIV for 19 Years
Shawn discovered his status at the young age of 17 and has been living with HIV for 19 years. He was abandoned by his mother at birth and forced to leave the home of his adoptive parents at the age of 15 because they could not come to terms with Shawn being gay.
After leaving home at the age of 15, Shawn was forced to live on the street for periods of time and turned to a life of prostitution. After discovering his positive status at age 17, Shawn decided to use his illness as motivation to find a new direction in life rather than as a reason to give up.
Despite the challenges, Shawn became a successful DJ and played clubs and events throughout South Africa. Over the past 19 years he has had three long-term relationships with negative partners and has found that being open about his status from day-one has allowed him to have fulfilling relationships with no secrets.
Seven years ago Shawn met his life partner, Georg. Georg has spent much of his time collecting and caring for exotic birds on his extensive property. He is proud to say that he is the only individual in the world to own all eight species of swans. In September of 2013, they pooled their talents and passions to create a wedding venue on the grounds of Georg's magnificent bird collection and Heaven's Gate Event Venue was opened. It has been a success by all measures and Shawn does the bulk of the wedding/event planning, as well as being the DJ.
Shawn has been blessed with a strong immune system and has never been sick as it relates to HIV. However, he struggled with the stigma of ARVs and spent 14 years of his positive life without them. With the help and encouragement of Georg, Shawn was finally able to move past the stigma of being on ARVs and began taking them about 5 years ago.
Shawn does not allow his HIV status to define who he is. He owns and runs a successful business, is in a happy and fulfilling relationship with his negative life partner, Georg, and lives happily with Georg and their five Scottie dogs. He is currently up for Positive Hero of 2015 through the "Change the Stigma Project: and is actively involved with an HIV charity called Nkosi Haven. Shawn is proud to be positive!
Sunday, May 31, 2015
Patty - Living with HIV for 2 Years
Patty was recently let go from her job and is confident that it was due to her positive status. Being unemployed wasn't an option so she borrowed money from a friend to buy an industrial sewing machine and has put her seamstress talents to use to support her family.
Friday, May 22, 2015
Mandla - Living with HIV for 18 Years
Friday, May 15, 2015
Anna - Living with HIV for 12 years
Anna volunteers much of her free time identifying individuals within her community's informal settlements who are ignoring and losing the battle to stay healthy with HIV. As an advocate for the sick to seek care, she has influenced the lives of many to choose life with treatment rather than the path her sister chose.
Anna and Mandla are engaged to be married and planning their wedding for the near future. Anna is healthy and has never allowed her status to keep her from living a full and meaningful life.
Monday, April 20, 2015
Rinah - Living with HIV for 5 Years
Rinah is the mother of two children (ages 19 & 9) and has been living with HIV for five years. After she received her positive result, unexpected health complications quickly followed and it remains unclear whether they were related to HIV. Once her immediate health concerns were under control it was time for her to decide how to move forward.
In addition to her children's struggle, Rinah was fired from her job at the public health clinic and firmly believes it was directly related to her status. She is currently working to fight her discriminate dismissal.
Monday, April 13, 2015
Gary Allpass – Living with HIV for 23 Years
“Being HIV+ has turned me into the strong and determined person I am today.”